How do you wear your unforgiveness?
As twenty, thirty extra pounds?
Wrinkles around your eyes from fretting?
Lines around your mouth from frowning?
Do your shoulders slump?
Is your neck stiff?
Do you experience aches and pains?
Have you isolated yourself?
How can you possibly feel and look your best when inside you’re being eaten up with judgment, resentment and lack?
What if you could change your physical appearance by changing your emotional state?
Change the outside by changing the inside?
I’d go as far as saying that if you are someone struggling with weight (and it’s not purely physiological/ hormonal) that you have to do the inner work if you want to lose weight and look better.
I lost twenty pounds within a month-without dieting when I forgave my father. Oh, but you see-I gained twenty pounds within like two weeks just before that (when my father came back into my life after years of estrangement) The thing is…I didn’t realize I was gaining the weight until after the fact. I didn’t realize my seething internalized anger was having me over eat and not exercise. When I got conscious (I was taking a Master’s degree program in Spiritual Psychology at the time and had lots of homework) I immediately committed myself to a practice of identifying inner judgments about my father and myself and then I practiced forgiveness.
What if there was a ‘forgiveness fashionista‘ who could come to the rescue with a remedy- a stylish remedy?
Inner and outer healing to reveal the beautiful you!
I’m super excited to explore forgiveness in this new way.
Cleaning the inside and then dressing the outside to match the new, lighter, brighter, sexier you!
I noticed something in my own life having to do with being seen in my world.
As I got less depressed from doing the inner emotional work I started getting rid of the black baggy clothing I lived in and I began wearing colors again—and not colors too bright-that I could hide behind…but colors to enhance the real me.
I’m exploring giving one style tip and one related fashion tip per week on this blog (using my experience working in some of the finest stores in NYC and then having a career as a personal stylist)
It’s not only a natural fit-but fun!
Would that be helpful?
I’ll keep you posted on the classes I’m teaching and the new products I’m using to beautify my life..the books I’m reading,,,,the trends I’m following…and what I’m wearing.
It’s time to shine…
With forgiveness and love,
Brenda
Referred to by one radio interviewer as..
The Queen of Forgiveness and now… looking forward to embracing the
Forgiveness Fashionista inside me.
